Hello my dear friend,
This is definatelly something you have to discuss with your spiritual father, he’s the one that can tell you how to handle this. So, ask his guidance before taking any decisions about this issue, as, under no circumstances the Orthodox faith of the children cannot be compromised, even if it is for the sake of the love for your future husband.
I hope this helps! I haven’t been in a situation like this, but if I was you, the first thing I’d do it would be to ask my spiritual father.
God bless you, blessed remain of the Lent!
slavicpride said: Its difficult problem, but you must know that Orthodox faith is one and only!That is all i can say to you.